Combine the pleasures of touch with words of love before you explore the vulva. Talk about your pain before you lips meet. Let the embrace of your love be the medicine and you will find that it is not many lovers you will seek, but the embrace of too much love. You will find that it is not lust you need to quench, but the body of your love and the ecstasy of salvation, pure, clean and free. We call this Grace.

-Codex of love, Reflections from the Heart of Ishtar